Should I Date A Single Mom?

by Peter
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Dating a single mother is almost as good as winning the lottery. Especially if the woman you are looking for is not a leech or one that is looking for a sugar daddy or someone to take care of her. What makes a single mom worth dating? There is definitely more than one reason.

Here Are A Few Reasons Why You Should Date a Single Mom

Independent

This woman is not going to rely on you to support her. She has come into her own and is quite capable of taking care of herself and her child. Also, she is responsible enough to hold a job, make sure the child is taken care of, and can handle anything thrown her way. She will not balk if you say you need a little time to yourself.

Takes It In Stride

This woman has likely dealt with a child throwing a temper tantrum in the middle of a store. The thought of your ex confronting her cannot phase her. It would likely seem like child’s play to her.

Does It All

This woman you have eyes for can earn her own money, cook the dinner after buying the food and clean up after all while keeping one eye on a child. She is the master of getting things done.

Unconditional Love

Single moms are more than capable of loving unconditionally. They can overlook the minor flaws you have and never flinch. No one is perfect, and she knows this, has learned it, and respects it. As a single mother, she knows what she wants, what she needs, and finds it. She does not play games when it comes to dating. Games are reserved for her child. She has a will of love so deep it is bottomless.

She Knows She Is Sexy

When a woman becomes a mother, there is a certain ‘spice’ added to her. She is naturally sexy, she is gorgeous, and she is smart. What a woman goes through to have a child is so much more than being hurt by a partner. She has an inner strength that cannot be matched. All these things she gained from having a child make her absolutely gorgeous and phenomenal.

Playing For Keeps

She is not in this to have a quick run at romance; she is in it for the long haul. So not be pulling her heartstrings if you cannot play the tune. She wants a guy that is real, one that is responsible for himself, and one that obviously likes kids. She will not even look twice if you do not like kids.

Loyalty

The single mother you are dating, she is super loyal to those she loves. She has learned to have patience and be committed. There is not a whole lot that can scare this beauty away! She has likely seen it all.

Snack Time

You can bet your life on the fact there is always something to eat at her place. Cookies, fruit, or even fruit snacks. I bet she can even cook more than boxed macaroni and cheese. She puts her all into everything, and that would include a relationship with you!

Priorities

There are some things that may not work out in your favor at times. Her child or children will always be the number one thing in her life. Their well being and their safety, the love they get from her. But do not fret; she has enough love to go around.

Baby Daddy will always be in the picture. You will need to prepare to meet him; you may even get some drama out of him. It would be difficult for you too if your ex and baby momma had a new guy in her life.

Spontaneity

The spur of the moment decision to go hang out with friends will not happen as much as you may be used to. Again, she has responsibilities that come first. Date nights can be arranged as long as she finds a baby sitter or grandparent to watch the child. In turn, however, this does allow for plenty of free time for you.